getting a job might not be that easy, a paycheck and feeding your children could be more important than finding the "right" job.
bdeeley, I am not telling anyone how to spend their money, not even close. You must have been reading a different post.
I am surprised with the response. I was posting as a frustrated restaurateur, who lives in a tipping world. I will not punish someone trying to make a living, because of a greedy owner. However if the service did not warrant a tip, that's a different story