How did you find SXM? What year did you start coming? How many years have you returned?

I can with three other couples in the 80's. We rented from the Villa Lady in Beacon Hill. My wife and I have returned over 30 years. Sxm is our destination for our anniversary!

1993. Bought week at Pelican then cancelled. Didn't feel right. Went home. Friends videoed LaVista for us. Bought a week, every other year, shoulder season, sight unseen. Next year we realized we wanted to come every year, and in February. Bought one of the new penthouse units at LaVista .After Luis, when LaVista announced plans for LaVista Beach on site of damaged house, we traded and bought 3 weeks at LVB. Been going every year, Feb into March. Added weeks in our unit when they became available. Now up to 5 weeks one year, 6 the next. Look forward to our visit all year. Made some great friends.

November 2001. Got a chance when another couple backed out of the trip after 9/11. We lucked out and stayed at Villa Coccinelle at Orient. There were 3 other couples. My wife and I were immediately hooked. We went back 2 more times with other couple to the same villa. Haven't been back since 2009, we started a family and have been waiting for our son to be old enough to enjoy and remember it. I asked him this past year "do you wanna go back to disney and the disney cruise or go to an island where we can eat amazing foods and not wear clothes on a beach?" Disney went right out the window. We are planning on 2020!!!!

It was 1973 and we were just kids - mid twenties - we managed to win an all expense paid week long trip (air, hotel at the then pristine Mullet Bay Resort and all meals plus three cocktail parties and a rental car for a day) to the ‘Friendly island’ which we had never heard of. It was the most expensive ‘free’ trip anyone ever won since we’ve gone back almost every year since. We bought timeshare in the mid to late eighties and as is so often the case, we started with one week and worked our way up to four. Due to the problems from Irma we walked away from three of our four weeks and are right back where we started with our original week and unit which someday I hope to be able to use again. But in the meantime we’ve found other destinations across the island we really love, some even for less rental fees than our timeshare. We still go generally twice a year for at least two weeks each trip. Don’t know how much longer we’ll be doing it but for now, that’s my story and I’m sticking with it.

We came for our kids' (ages 5 and 7) spring break in 1996, the year after Hurricane Luis. We fell in love with the island and bought a timeshare week at Divi, despite the fact that much of the resort still needed renovation. We've returned every year except 3 since. It's a special place for our daughters, too, who are now almost 30, and they (and our new son in law) join us when ever they can. We now stay for 2 weeks and have enjoyed renting apartments on the French side to enjoy a different experience.

We started coming October 2002 on our 30th anniversary. We were intrigued with the fact that it was a two country island. We stayed at the L'Esplanade and from that time forward we have come every year, sometimes twice a year, and we always stay at the l'Esplanade on the French side. We would never stay anywhere else. We absolutely love every part of St. Martin.

We came in February of 2009 for a once in a lifetime beach vacation. We discovered Orient beach as well as the rest of the island and we went home encountering major depression until reserving time in June. We only missed one year (due to medical reasons) until that bad lady Irma. We are still in the planning stages for future forays. We love the island with all its quirks and can’t wait to go back with the friends we have made there! Beware - the island is habit forming!

I found SXM on a nautical chart -- sailed in for the 1st time in 1976 in the dark and anchored in Simpson bay. left at 1st light for St Barth's - same chart.
Been back many times since - both sides - have enjoyed Marigot more than Phillipsburg and the find the food and provisioning more my style on the French Side. I have always felt the dry and dusty terrain of the island to be less attractive than the bigger, more lush islands. But it has a fine boating community and some excellent vessel services. Usually rent a car for a day or two to travel around and sightsee between errands. It certainly has become quite developed and much busier in my 40+ years of stopping there and my visits are less frequent the last 10 years. There are still some good prices to be had on French wines by the case and although the grocery variety has increased the prices are not as attractive anymore. We used to stock up on the Dutch cheeses for instance. The overwhelming mega-yacht traffic has dramatically changed the boating sector direction and the hurricanes have proved the Lagoon is not the safe haven it once was thought to be. The airports are convenient for crew travel to both the US and Europe.
after reading the previous replies I admit I had no idea it was such a popular timeshare destination but that does explain a lot of the change I have seen.

Carol and I began coming in 2000 when I asked another fellow what 2 islands would you go to if you had the chance. He had traveled for years and years and suggested St. Thomas and St. Martin. So, my best friend for over 50 years, who had taught school with me for 35 years and had both just retired, and our wives, made our first trip to the Caribbean. Carol and I have been coming back to SXM every year since with more than one trip a year during a few of those years. We first stayed at the Mecure Simpson. All four of us loaded all our luggage in the rental car and with directions that the rental company gave us, headed to the resort. We pulled in to the place and had to go over a speed island. The car was so low to the road with all the luggage and the 4 or us that we got hung up on the bump. Everyone had to get out as well as the luggage so I could get over the bump. We were the only people in the place that spoke English. They had to get a cook in the restaurant to come to our table so we could order. Our friends had enough of the island, but we certainly haven't. We have been on the island for just about 3 weeks now and today we made a visit to Philipsburg to buy a few things, eat crepês along the boardwalk, visit with Kathy who has Grandma's Gift Shop near The Green House and tell all the people who try and hand Carol something outside a shop that she is extremely allergic to the ink on the cards. Hard not to laugh when she does it, but it works every time. One ship in today, but the streets were empty. So sad to see that!

1987 for us. It because of an airline deal for the flight and hotel rooms. We also ventured over to St. Barts for a day. After 1987, St. Barts became our Carib destination for about 20 years, and of course, we always flew into SXM.

1991 on a Carnival cruise. First time staying over was 1994 and have only missed 1-2 years since.

First visit was in 1998 on an II exchange into one of the now departed Simpson Bay Resort C buildings. Exchanged again for the next five years until my father in law couldn't come any more and let us use his 5th floor upper B building unit with a fantastic view. We eventually took over AMF payments and got the ownership deed in 2008.

We have been going the second and third weeks in January ever since (minus Irma). . We have made lots of tennis and beach friends and have seen a lot of changes on the Island.

We would never exchange SBR for anywhere else. That's what our Las Vegas unit is for.

First on a cruise in '89 and 4 more cruise stops before extended staying on island in '99 on a RCI exchange.and every year since. Missed 1 year to go to Hawaii which was a big mistake. On island now and loving being back.

Won a trip in 1985 when I worked for Xerox. First couple years stayed at Dawn Beach Resort. Switched to Belair Beach Hotel, where we eventually bought time shares. We returned every year for our annual family vacation December/January, except Irma aftermath. We are about to buy tickets for 2019/2020.

Mine began in 1970, my parents bought a villa at Mullet Bay. I was a teenager then. Been coming every year, at least twice since. Luckily, my parents sold their villa 6 months BEFORE Luis. I was so angry with them at the time. They were not using it as much, but I was, they told me now that I'm an adult, I was on my own, that I could still go on my own...lol. The year after Luis I stayed at Cupecoy. A family friend who also used to stay at Mullet told me they had discovered another place to stay, BSV. I checked it out the year we were at Cupecoy and have been staying at BSV ever since then.

Our first stay was at Belair too and took a tour of new construction at Flamingo and bought there.

Roslyn and I, the two kids stopped here on a carnival cruise in 1992. Loved mullet beach.
Bought a timeshare in for Aruba Divi in 1998 and alternated years ever since.

Don
Will be in sxm in two weeks.

Since 2005. Flew on Delta, Eastern and American. Cant' wait to return in 2020.

My "compensation" for constructing a new home for a very ill and now departed dear friend was the use of one of his weeks at The Towers. This was in 1998 ...... I've been back every year but one (Irma) staying in a variety of T/S's & Condo's mostly in the Cupecoy area. Goal is to purchase a permanent "home" on the island in the not to distant future. My friend warned me that this place was addictive..............

Cindy and I first visited in 1984 by virtue of an American Airlines 4 days 3 nights plan. Stayed at Cupecoy (in a unit across the road from the main Cupecoy complex) On a trip to Phillipsburg on a rainy day were approached by a young woman and signed up for a tour of Pelican Resort. Bought two units in the Caladium building for week 8 in preconstruction. Later acquired week 9 on one of the units via private sale). Returned practically every year since (missing about three due to personal finances and illness). Weathered through the financial problems at Pelican, Luis and Marilyn, and the change of ownership to Simpson Bay Resorts. All was great until IRMA. Our building was one of the three declared severely damaged and torn down. We were offered points for our loss, but we picked our units for that specific time and location. We will be returning this week but staying at the Oyster Bay Beach Resort by using some banked weeks.

We came in 1985 our 15th Anniversary ,i heard about glass wall between the bedroom and shower and thought it sounded interesting it was the San Tropaz ( spelling may not be correct ) on the French side we were the only people from the USA had a great time went back the next year met some great friends and have been coming back ever since over 38 years and counting 2 week at a time we now stay at villas with our friends ( 4 couples ) last year I brought my 3 daughter and husbands for week and all enjoyed . We will be back in late October / November for #39 love this place.

1979. Stayed in Anguilla(then it was truly unspoiled paradise) and took the ferry over to SXM and had my first ever taste of foie gras and have been hooked on French food and culture ever since. Been coming back and forwards but not every year apart from the last 6 years where we rent a villa 2-3 times a year in Terres Basses. Nearly brought a villa would you believe just before Irma which was held up by the sellers so fate took a part as it was badly damaged and offered to us at a knockdown price but decided not to purchase regardless. Call it Karma. Had owned a place in St. Thomas for 25 years but was lucky to sell 2 years ago. Been virtually all over the Caribbean and SXM ticks all the boxes now. Back in 9 days for three weeks with 4 days in Anguilla. I actually have lost 35lbs in 11 weeks so I can stuff my face for a few weeks, unfortunately, had my first real meal last night and stomach not used to it, so perhaps I will curtail my eating plans. Such a tough life!! Got to know the owners of L'Auberge, Le Cigale, Tropicana and so many other owners of stores, restaurants etc and the struggles they have been through and understand. Its almost like coming back to close family. Been through Wilma and Irma where we have also taken direct hits and has not been funny at all.

First trip to SXM on a cruise on Carnival Celebration, 1987. We never left Front Street!! Went to Club Orient for the first time I think in 1989, not sure which ship we were on. Several cruises to SXM after that, stayed on island for the first time in February 1995, 7 months prior to Luis, stayed at Green Cay Villas. Many, many more trips since then, both on cruises and more recently, just staying on island. Stayed at a couple dozen different places all over the island over the years. Our needs have changed over the years. Now, Beachside Villas has everything we want. ...EXCEPT this next trip we'll be doing a private villa, for the first time NOT staying at BSV in a while. We've been to pretty much every island in the Caribbean, many of them multiple times on cruises. No place has our heart like SXM.

Back in 1981 friends of ours came here on their honeymoon, and when they returned they told us how beautiful it was. We were married that same year, but went elsewhere on our honeymoon. But, for our one year anniversary we made our initial visit and realized that we would be coming back many, many times in the future. We had to pick our spots once children came along in 1986, and a potential visit in 1996 was disrupted by Hurricane Luis. But, cruise ship ports-of-call with Princess and Celebrity began in 2003, including one that was an overnight stay. Finally, cruise ship visits were not enough and in 2009 (or so) we started annual visits ranging from five to ten days as time allotted. Hurricane Irma resulted in a two-year hiatus for us, but we last returned in March and will soon plan our next visit to the island ... maybe this fall.

In the late 70's and very early 80's I visited Antigua, Puerto Rico and the US Virgin Islands on different trips. Eastern Airlines deals that my family took advantage of, I really enjoyed or you could say fell in love with the Caribbean Islands. MJ grew up going to Hawaii, which we visited earlier in our travels but I wanted to get her to the Caribbean and we won Delta Airlines tickets so we used them to get to St Thomas which must have been about 2001. MJ fell in love with the Caribbean and then again in 2002 we won Delta tickets and made the decision that we would book to Puerto Rico and then where ever we got a decent timeshare exchange we would pick that island and it happened to be the Divi on SXM. We have spent somewhere in the neighborhood of 250 nights on island since and it is the place we go to relax and recharge our mental state. We were doing two trips per year for a while but we are now just down usually to our three weeks with the November Gang starting Thanksgiving week while with our other vacation weeks we are trying to take the time to visit other parts of the world but none are as relaxing as SXM. So many great friendships have been created in those trips, we are lucky.

Cheers,
Todd

So Thanksgiving arrival again this year for you two? We leave for home on the 19th. Wondering if we’ll ever cross paths again.......

How did we find SXM? Well, we got on an airplane in Toronto & asked the pilot to take us to St Maarten. 😁
Seriously though, my husband researched an island that had similar culture to ours ,, safety reviews & beautiful pictures of Mont Vernon & the island, consistently great weather. Travel books from tourist agency. Mont Vernon was a fabulous AI in the day. Sat on balcony & looked down Orient beach & found Le Taitu & La Main a la Pate while staying there. Bongo Byron restaurant on Orient with the parrot.
First time there 1998 & 20 trips to date. Next trip January 2020. A special year for us. I'll turn 70 & we will be married 50 years in August 2020. Lots to celebrate while on island ahead of time!

Cruise ship in 1979. Bought pre construction at Divi ($5400 for a one bedroom) while staying in the hotel in 1987 and never missed a year since. We started making 2 trips each year since 1997.

2000 was our 1st visit. It was a timeshare trade for X-mas/New Year's week into Pelican. 16 or so visits over the last 19 years.

February 1979 was I our first trip---recommended by a travel agent. We just completed our 40th this past march. Sometimes the trip is one week, sometimes two and once was three weeks.

We first discovered St. Martin in 2003 on a cruise ship. We immediately fell in love with Orient Beach! We actually got online and reasearched flights from St. Martin back to Florida and were consisering grabbing our luggage off the cruise ship and staying in Orient Beach a few more days. Unfortunately, since it was Christmas weekend, flights were crazy and we got back on the ship. After that, we returned in 2005, 2006, 2008, and 2010 for week - long vacations. We stayed at Club O twice, Palm Court once, and rented an apartment in Orient Village once. Then life got crazy, family vacations were geared more toward Disney or cruise ships, and we haven’t been back in almost 9 years (other than two day trips on cruise ships). I just booked our 25th wedding anniversary trip - four nights in Palm Court in July! I can’t wait!

Pat, we land on the 22nd this year, again we will miss you two. Not sure if you were asking us or Bigbobthib but at some point I am sure we will meet up again. SXM or elsewhere.

Our first visit was in 1995, pre Luis. Stayed at Green Cay Village. We were inspired to visit SXM by Carol Hill. Did not return again until 2002 and then every year afterward until Irma hit. Hurricanes seem to affect our SXM plans.

We first visited in the early 80's on a business trip, staying at Mullet Bay. We took day trips over to Anguilla and St Barth, and decided that between the three islands, the area was a great fit for us. We've been back 2-3 times a year ever since, sometimes St Maarten/St Martin, sometimes St Barth, and Anguilla every few years.

I forgot to mention one thing. Along the way, I ran into Ray Ousley (now deceased). Some loved him, some hated him, but he sure did bring something extra to the party, LOL. I've got stories, but those are cocktail-hour stories, not online stories. But oh man, the fun that was raised!

First year 1999. 2nd son's 1st birthday. Oldest son 2 1/2 years old. My in-laws built a home in Orient Bay Resort. We travel to SXM on average once a year. Returning end of August after our 3rd child leaves for college! The kids are now 22, 21, and 18. We are about to become empty nesters. Many more trips to SXM in my head! Favorite place on Earth!

Bahston--never met Ray, but sure remember some stories! What was that saying he used to say?

There was something about Sand Gravity, which I can’t recall at the moment. It’ll come to me eventually.

Carol, it was the Dreaded Island Fever. Here’s his description, as preserved by Jamaica Jim:

DIF is a real, not imagined, affliction which is contracted by first time visitors to the Caribbean! People contracting the disease usually start showing symptoms within the first twenty-four hours of first setting foot on a Caribbean island. The initial symptom is an uncontrollable urge to lay on a beach and do absolutely nothing. All those "must do" plans seem to melt away in the Caribbean sunshine. When the afflicted are asked about going somewhere or doing something, the reply is usually, "What's the DIFference? It can wait until tomorrow!"

DIF is further compounded by the effects of a strange force found only in the Caribbean. It is called "Sand Gravity!" When the disease meets up with the force, the poor afflicted soul finds it hard to even get up to retrieve another cold beverage! That's why some resorts employ beach waiters and waitresses.

The disease gets progressively worse as time goes on. Even couch potatoes are more active than DIF sufferers! Another symptom of the disease has been reported by flight attendants, who say that spouses have been observed dragging their mates aboard aircraft leaving for the United States. The afflicted have been heard to scream, "One more day -- just one more day!!!"

Back in the states, the deadly disease continues to affect victims. They have been reported posting pictures and even posters of a tranquil island scene, on office walls and near their desks. One sufferer was even reported to have taped an island picture on his clip board at work! People with DIF have reported that they often day dream about that special island in the sun, while at work. Others have reported seeing people in serious business meetings with a silly grin on their face and a far away look in their eyes.

At home it doesn't get any better! The poor sufferer forgets about the lawn, house work, kids, little league, friends, neighbors, family and even their job! In an extreme case, one forgets about house payments, car payments and social responsibilities. All they can think of is, "How can I figure a way to return to the islands?"

There is no known cure for DIF! All of the people who tried to find a cure, were themselves afflicted and ran off to some Caribbean location! There are only "treatments" for this dreaded affliction. The treatment consists of a large "dose" of warm Caribbean sunshine, soft sandy beaches, warm Caribbean sea water and many cold drinks served at a beach bar. There is a downside to this however. The afflicted build up a resistance to the treatments and have to return more and more frequently and for longer periods to relieve the symptoms! Most of the regulars round The Caribbean Travel Forum are hopelessly and helplessly afflicted and will never, recover! The CDC and your government don't even acknowledge that this disease exists because they don't want to have a mass panic and have all of the citizens rush to the Caribbean.

The main problem is, DIF is something that you either already have -- or something you will get! (Grin!)

Thanks Bahston!! Can't believe I forgot that!

In 1987 we were trying to decide where to go on vacation.....we had been to Jamaica and the Bahamas, but wanted to go somewhere else. We were at our travel agents and she had many pamphlets of all the Caribbean islands, but we couldn't decide. She took all the pamphlets and fanned them out like you would a deck of cards, told me to close my eyes and pick one.....I picked St. Maarten. We flew Eastern Airlines [I think], stayed at the old Great Bay Hotel, rented a car the size of a shoe box...but man, you could park that car anywhere! Although we didn't use it much..we were a little apprehensive about exploring the island, we basically spent our time in and around Frontstreet. We had an amazing time and met so many wonderful people in our short 5 day trip that we knew we were definitely coming back next vacation.......and that we did! It's been 32 years since we first stepped off the plane......I remember thinking oh no when I saw the tiny airport, what have I gotten us into...LOL We've been back every year, sometimes twice a year and sometimes three times a year.....so have completely lost count. Been very happy Royal Islander owners since 1992 - we own 4 weeks. So many great memories that we couldn't even begin to count.

I had more than enough miles, ET passes good old Eastern Airlines. I asked a couple of flight attendants (I recall they were stewardesses then) and the agreed St. Martin was the place to go. I had never heard of the island before that. So, looking at our old passports, started going in May of 1988. First visit was to Le Gallion and the Club O. We went every year up to Luis then, with the issue from the storm and the kids were getting older so started visiting other places.

2014 I decided I would revisit the island and now wonder why we stopped going. Now it usually is two visits each year. I'm looking forward to September and enjoying time at the Club O beach.

First time in 1999....been back 10 times since then starting in 2007. Have not been back since Irma but mainly due to 3 grandchildren in the last 2 years. Going to start again and always at the Sonesta Maho. I miss all the friendly staff and hope to renew our friendships

Have been reading TTOL SXM but have not logged in or written for some time,until I saw this post.

We first came in 1992 and stayed at the Flamboyant in Nettle Baie, as it was all inclusive. Came back 25 times after that until 2014. Stayed at Flamboyant several more times, plus Mullet Bay (when it was still standing), Mercure Simson, Anse Margot, Nettle Baie, Maho, Great Bay, Caravanserai . Some years we came twice.

We would often think about going somewhere else during those years, but would ultimately agree that SXM was the best.My husband liked that fact that he could rent a car from Leslie and easily get around the island. We both loved the beaches, especially Orient and Le String, where we usually hung out for days on each trip.Loved the food, loved the shopping, loved the interesting people we invariably met.

Sad to say, we won't be back again.My husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer's Disease in 2016 and died last June. His kids and grand-kids wanted me to go and scatter his ashes on Orient Beach. Still thinking about that but know that the place won't ever feel the same.

Sorry to be such a downer but thanks for getting me to post again.

Southshore--thanks for posting. I know that SXM will never be the same as it was for you, but there are a couple of people here like Islandgem and Cincinnati_Kid, who have suffered losses of their spouse, that you might want to reach out to..

In 2015, gave my son the option to go anywhere in the World. He chose St. Maarten and St. Barths because he’s an aviation nut. We got a fabulous ocean view apartment at Atrium. We fell in love with everything! Totally blew me away what a fantastic place it is. I also met a certain French man... I travelled to the island 12 times between 2015-2017. Last time I was there was August of 2017. My boyfriend came to vist me in Brazil on September 3, 2017. He/we lost everything in St. M. Apartment, car, all belongings, the restaurant where he worked. He stayed with me in Brazil for 1.5 years. He returned to France a few months ago for a surgery and to eventually get back to work to save $$$ to return to St. Maarten. I hope it happens by the end of this year to stay. We miss the island so very much.

Southshore - As Carol mentioned, both of the above lost their spouses. Both returned to SXM for the first time since the death of their beloveds late last year. Islandgem did actually spread her husband's ashes at Orient. Carol's recommendation that you reach out to them is a good one. A trip back without your spouse would definitely be different, but it need not be bad.

We bought a bi-annual time share week in St Louis from ARI. That was in 1997. !st trip to SXM, not counting a stop on a cruise before that,was in 1998. Been coming every year a at least once a year since. Missed 1999. and second half of 2017, first half of 2018. At somewhere around 30 trips with two booked October 2019 and January 2020. LOVE IT!

Had frequent flyer miles on PanAm in 1989. Wanted to go to a Caribbean Island and PanAm flew there, so off we went for 16 days. Stayed at one of the six rooms at Hevea (RIP) in Grand Case because Fodors called it a great place for "self-sufficient art-appreciating types." No luxuries there, except in the dining room! Fell in love with the island. Someone at a tourist kiosk in Philipsburg told us to go to Pelican and listen to the timeshare spiel in order to get the free trip to Anguilla on the sailboat Gandalf (sadly lost in Hurricane Luis). Ended up buying an efficiency at Flamingo for a week. Later bought two more weeks at Pelican on resale, then another at Flamingo. When Pelican decided to build the Villas we were approaching retirement, so decided to invest in 8 weeks and liquidate our original four. Except for Irma, we've been back every year for 30 years, and look forward to our 8 weeks in January, February, and March with anticipation.

I actually didn’t find St. Martin...my dad did! We went for the first time in March and will be returning in July.

Our first trip was on Freedom of the seas in 2012, spent the day on Orient beach and really wanted to return. I looked for airfare and only found long, 16-20 something hour flights and got discouraged. A few years went by and checked again, found a 7 hour trip, and stayed at La Playa in April 2016. We returned in 2017 and 2019 as 2018 was a bust. I regret missing those 3 years in between, but am already planning next years trip!

2006ish. Being an aviation nut, we were initially drawn there. Once we got to Sonesta Maho and stayed a few days, went to a timeshare talk and were sold.

For us, having a direct flight and upon landing, being at our room or the beach within 20 minutes of landing was what was valuable to us.

We return every 3 years with our family but may opt to come more often.

My wife and I first went in around 1993, as best I can recall. A former client (since deceased) invited us to stay with him and his wife at Royal Palm. We went back a year or so later and bought a week there, just in time for Bertha. We traded once or twice, but we went around 20 years like clockwork, usually for the Regatta weekend. Our last trip was two years ago, and we stayed in a Villa for the first time, to celebrate our 30th anniversary with our children and granddaughters. Not sure when we will return. I have a feeling that it may be a while..

Haven't been yet but but going for the first time in July! Subscribed to one of those "Cheap flight alert" email lists. Saw St. Martin come up and fell in love with it after researching. Have been to two other French islands, Guadeloupe and Martinique, so going to another French island with a Dutch side was a no brainer! Looking forward to shedding my bathing suit and being care free for a week in July.

Fist visit to SXM in 1987 was on a Cruise and we all went to Mullet Bay Beach for the day. Went back in 1988 and rented a villa in Mullet Bay for a couple of years and then stayed at various resorts / condos / villas ever since. Last 20 years we have averaged 1 visit a year with our latest stays at Cupecoy Beach Club, Beachside Villas and most recently The Cliff.