I'm so confused. But you guys have been a great help. I don't want my friend to have to pay to pick up the box so I am trying to send it in a way that there are not charges on their end. As you can tell, I have no idea. But I did contact 4star Cargo as suggested by several members. Thank you again. I am sending from PA to SXM through Miami Cargo. Taking it to ups today. I don't want to spend a fortune...so that is where I'm at. I'm sure the next time I send something, it won't be as confusing!