Kudos to you, and I have to say, I'm so sorry you were made to feel uncomfortable posting here in the past. Every last one of us can see the same places and enjoy the same things yet experiencing different effects and walking away with totally different feelings and perspectives and that's okay.
I'm glad you returned (and plan to continue doing so....) and doing the solo thing is going well, and I'm with Beerman. Don those dark and mysterious glasses and enjoy your moments in any way you choose. You're entitled!! <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/handshake.gif" alt="" /> <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/handshake.gif" alt="" />
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