I would forego some places in order to get to anegada even for one night. How about
1 Sunsail Base
2 cooper ( i don't go there bc it's usually too rolly)
3 baths in the am and north sound overnight
4 early am sail to anegada/cow wreck for day and lobster dinner
5 day sail to jvd
6 jvd again or norman
Just a thought. I love planing itineraries even if they aren't mine!
Cheer!