Pat, I am so glad you and DH were able to make this trip. You are so correct...we just don't know what curve balls life will throw at us. I wish I had a picture of the guys at the SXM airport carrying my Bill down the airplane steps. It was to be our last trip physically together, but what a beautiful trip it was. The island people are extremely helpful and we never were neglected. This last summer I returned to place Bill's ashes at Happy Bay. Bill had a saying: "No Bad Days." He now flies with the angels. So yes, Pat, JUST DO IT is fine advice. Make a memory. They are what will give solace down the road.

Sincerely,
Barbara