We did a 5 day itinerary at the beginning of May I just posted a brief trip report. I would do your 1st Option 1 see I would rather do Cane Garden Bay than Diamond Cay for the night. But for any of your options you will be able to do all that which ever one you pick. I was worried too and we were fine. Just have fun I wouldn't be too worried about kids I think they will have a great time just swimming and hanging out.

What day would be your choice of either Diamond Cay or CGB because if a Sunday then def CGB for the elm beach sunday BBQ.

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