Like Kim, I'm very confused by your post. If your kids are thirty to forty something - I think that's what you're saying.......surely you would all enjoy some of your vacation time together, but most that age would NOT want to be attached at the hip and would certainly relish the vacation with you but on their own time, too. Just sayin....... <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/handshake.gif" alt="" /> <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/handshake.gif" alt="" />