Anegada sounds amazing! New itinerary
Day 1 - arrive, enjoy Scrub island
Day 2 - snorkel/Jost with Dive BVI - enjoy evening on Scrub ( dinner on scrub or trellis bay - recommendations?)
Day 3- Anegada ( How far in advance to get plane ticket? worried about weather not working out)
Day 4- Tortola ( smugglers cove and cane beach - lunch/dinner there at elm bbq or myetts garden & grill, quitos or Rhymes
Day 5 - Virgin Gorda - rent a car, see the island - make sure to spend time at Savannah Bay and last thing at the Baths to avoid the crowd ( what else is not misses?) restaurants for lunch and/or dinner?
Day 6 - morning on Scrub and then leave