Lake Como is very laid back and non swinger. We joined last year after meeting some Lake Como members at Hidden Beach, Mexico. We took the least expensive membership, as we live about 40 miles away and will not likely visit that often.

It is a residential community as well as a resort and it is member owned. There is a pool (heated), hot tub, restaurant and bar. It surrounds a lake and has several hiking trails. The have a first-timer program, where you can get a tour, and sped the day. I think it was $18.00. I think it's worth a try.