My wife and I have taken quite a few vacations that were either cruises or all-inclusive. Last year, we had a cruise stop in St Martin and we loved it. I'm thinking of going back to St Martin. But I suspect that St Martin is best discovered through renting a villa , a car, and then DIY rather than doing an all-inclusive like Secrets. I would love to hear peoples thoughts on this, including safety, dining, and exploring. We are in our 50's.