Barbara - I can easily understand your frustration and have been in the "same boat" as you. I have 28,000 posts on the message board I visit the most and in the past swore it off due to postings that upset me. However, I did go back and now do not post as much, but still visit it almost every day.

Hope that down the road you reconsider. TTOL is a big asset to Carib travelers, and your input is definitely helpful.