Marge,
So sorry for your loss. There is never a good time for this...but going to rest, in the place he loved so much, sounds like the perfect way to enter eternity. I have told my wife many times, when the time comes I would love my ashes spread at different places on the island...all the places i loved to go. a bit at royal islander, maho beach....some at orient beach....a few ashes dropped in the casinos....and a few ashes spread around our favorite restaurants. May you have many years of happy memories of all the good times you shared in paradise...