BreckSailor,

I have been once to the Abacos for bareboat (4 adults and 4 teens) and going again in November as we had to switch from BVI. I think you will find it very similar to BVI minus the tides and shallow water sailing. Have to really pay a lot more attention to these details than the BVI. We spent a couple of nights anchored as the only boat in a location so you can find seclusion if you want but also still have many places to hit beach bars and mooring balls if you want. Plenty to keep you busy for a week and beyond.

I reviewed the Exumas charts yesterday for future and got the feeling that it is a step up from Abacos even in regards to tides, currents, and shallow areas. Appeared to me that you will find plenty of seclusion if you want but I have never been.

My personal opinion is that Abacos would be an easier family trip but may be a little more crowded than usual due to many charters being moved there. Feel free to PM if you want more specific questions answered.