Is Willie T on your Norman list?
Is White Bay (Soggy, Hendos etc.) Jost on your list?
I like Anegada for 2...Kelly (who we use)/Sherwin 1 day followed by dinner that night and then FOB & Cow Wreck for Day 2.
Also when you get to Monkey Point send 1 person in the water to see if the snorkeling is any good.
Remember you are herding cats...so lots of moving parts = more frustration
again IMHO