While we spend at least a week on both sides, if I only had two day to spend on the Dutch side, I would stay at Royal Islander La Plage.
On beach, great staff, some very good restaurants within a safe walk, casino, boat bar and some shopping along with a grocery store and drug store
Mullet / Jordan Village 5 minutes away, Cupecoy and Simpson Bay maybe 10 minutes away.

Less traffic than Simpson Bay.