Dawn....I caught your humor when you said 2 21 year olds and married whose husbands didnt want to sail. That being said....some comments may appear in jest and some more forthright. Hang in there....I think its a great thing you ladies want to sail with or without husbands. Stay on the site and learn more about the people here and you will come to know that too. I am sure there are options available and some good suggestions here. We just joined too so it is a great informative forum. I enjoyed this one as I thought quite funny.