if you want to see Flamingos...bring binoculars. often times you can see them AFAR off the "highest place in Anegada" (the bridge, 43 feet). often off to the left. while you are at it (the bridge), walk out a few hundred feet, it is knee deep for a while, makes a nice picture.

If your wife likes to walk on the beach, leave her at Flash of Beauty, drive up to Cow Wreck and wait for her at the bar <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/dine.gif" alt="" />

Anegada Beach hotel has a swimming pool, but since you are land based, you may be waterlogged. Check out their accommodations, the ocean view tents are really cool.

there is a bakery on the island (name slips me, it is "in the town") that makes all the key lime pie for the island. 20 bucks, as opposed to 5 bucks a slice. If Key lime pie is your thing. (it is mine)...EDIT...IT IS DOTSY'S.

good tip on the dotted road...DONT do it.

+1 on cow wrecks fritters. not sure if Wonky serves lunch, but they are really good for dinner.

you can always try to meet someone and next thing you know you might spend the evening on their boat. We often invite total strangers, just for the heck of it.