Hmmmm, unless the OP is looking for a stand alone property such as a private villa, I'm thinking most of the typical accommodations including BSV and the various timeshare properties are not typically c/o friendly on the Dutch side, nor are many of the beaches. The only one that really comes to mind is Cupecoy. I think there are some lovely condos there that might be just want the OP is looking for but I'm not sure if the condos themselves are c/o. Not exactly Simpson Bay but close enough with a fairly easy drive.
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