In our case, we were on our honeymoon and had dinner at Sidneys for the first time. We had setlled our bill and it was getting late. We ended up talking with some other people and imbibing further for another hour or so. When it was time to go, I went to Sidney (now deceased) and asked how much we owed him. He replied - "You are good mon, you already spent enough here tonight". That did it for us. To spread the money around, we would go for drinks at Abe's as well as with Harris (also now deceased), Pick one and make some new friends.