We have been sailing yearly and often twice yearly in the BVI since 1981. About 60 visits at 4 weeks each and with most of the weeks on shore. We have encountered gay groups and singles very often. More and more since the late 90’s. Cooper Island at one time was openly recruiting gay visitors. May still be. We have encountered entire flotillas of gay visitors. Have raced Spring Regatta against openly gay crewed boats. Have partied heavily at different beach bars with obviously gay groups. I personally never have seen a problem. Listen to Mal. Just play it cool and have fun. I would definitely plan that BVI cruise. And if you want a skipper I’ll be happy to refer you to a few who would be super. And yes they are locals.