There never was an invite. We boarded at 5pm and ate on board the first night. The very first full day we went to Willy T’s. They came with us and immediately when we walked in they went up to order food and drinks under the boat name then never offered to contribute to the bill. Next day for lunch on shore they told us they made a reservation for “all 6 of us.” We were the only ones in the restaurant. It was very pricey (and we live in a major US city with $$ food) and they each ordered two drinks and food (including an appetizer for two) on our bill with the expectation that we pay. Went to CocoMaya on Virgin Gorda the next night. They made reservations for a table for 6. The two of them shared a bottle of wine then ordered another for the two of them, in addition to all of their food, and we got the bill.

In their defense, we never objected until the last place where they had pre ordered lobster. Just before dinner we asked if we could have that meal alone just the 4 of us since we hadn’t yet had the chance. But by then we’d dropped at least 1k in food and drinks. And we only asked because we already had insight from others on TA that this was not customary.