Not a usual dining situation!! -- especially about drinking -- I was a charter Captain in the VI since early 1980s -- crew and guest drinking/partying together was more common way back when but is certainly condidered Very Unprofessional today.
I often made reservations for my guests for dinner BUT would never have included crew without a Specific invitation.
It was often a welcome treat to not have guests aboard for a few hours and give the chef the time off.
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