It falls somewhere between romantic vibe and beach bar! With it's twinkling lights, nice decor and setting it appears romantic but yes, there are still kids that run around playing giant Jenga and the music can be loud. We always rent the deck dining spot because it puts us right over the water and a little removed but that doesn't get you any further away from the general vibe or music. To get fully removed, you would need to inquire about their fully private beach dining. I am not sure the level of music (the DJ can be quite loud) on the beach. Ask to go as far away as possible. However, keep in mind that no matter where you sit, this is tapas dining and you will be constantly getting plates of food. So if you don't want to be interrupted alot during dinner you may choose elsewhere.