We'll be down the same time as you to celebrate my 50th <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/Grin.gif" alt="" />

2. Most likely White Bay is redlined for overnights by your charter company. You're better off picking up a ball in Great Harbour and taking a taxi over.
3. Latest reports are Marina Cay has been whipped back into shape, and we'll be stopping there in June.
4. I would 2 nights on the dock at Leverick. The kids can use the pool there and you can rent a car and tour the island, hitting the Copper Mine, the Baths, Savannah Bay & Hog Heaven. You can also call Saba Rock and they'll come pick you up in their free water taxi. They have a great Happy Hour and feeding of the Tarpon at 5pm.
5. We'll be doing Cow Wreck for the day and Wonky Dog for dinner. The sunset is great sitting on the back of your boat having cocktails.

I personally would do Cooper your first night and then hit CGB and Jost on your way back down from Anegada.