By no means am I judging! I travel strictly for top notch food and wine, but the BVI to my knowledge isn't the place. Alternative options: Fly down some really nice steaks and some wine and take to having a high end meal on the boat if you are good with a grill. But a few placed to look at are as I mentioned Saba Rock, Bitter End Yacht Club, Marina Cay, and while not up there on the fancy side, The Fat Virgin in Gorda Sound. All but the Fat Virgin are nice sit down options with covering everything from local fare to home favorites.