I will state that if a place on the Dutch side or in the US that has a higher percentage of customers from countries that don't tip and they are clear and up front on what they have added I have zero issue with it and will add if I see fit based on what I would normally tip.

When a place is deceptive on what the charges that are added to the check verbally or in writing I consider it dishonest and besides not adding to the amount I don't return. The policy of what they do with the money at the establishment is not my problem.

That is my policy.