Burn,

If you are rethinking the BVI.....

You might check into sailing in the pacific area.

* Tahiti....you really need about 10 days....to two weeks , bare boating, Raiatea , Taha'a, Bora Bora, and Huahini.....( lots of peaceful and and beautiful anchorages.) .

The other, for a real getaway, would the the WHITSUNDAY ISLANDS OF AUSTRALIA, 10 DAYS. ( mostly cooked on board as there were very, very few places to eat ashore, no towns, just natural beauty, hiking and killer snorkeling. )

One week barebaoting, , if you are sailing, really goes way too fast . Slow down and enjoy and leave the stress back home.
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For Australia ...Too long of an airplane and travel time for just one week. ( Actually spent 30 days when visiting OZ, 10 days sailing, plus 4 day dive boat trips out to the Great Barrier Reef, and Coral Sea, and also land adventures. )

The above suggestions are a couple of our faves, and we find quiet anchorages, great snorkeling and fantastic sailing.....Tahiti ( 4) trips, and the Whitsundays (2) trips. We also love the BVI, but it was not peaceful and quiet in general and
we stay clear of the Caribbean during hurricane season or The winter Christmas Winds. ( BVI : we personally prefer late May before hurricane season, and the kids are still in school. Not so crowded. ( two week trips ) .

Just thought that might fit into your requirements.