good for you...make sure, however, you still come up with an itinerary and are active participants. I bareboat and sometimes have a sister boat that has a Moorings captain. Last May he wanted to take his crews to Spanish Town instead of Anegada so he could see his buddies. He even left their boat a couple of times with the dinghy. After a couple days of this the other crew told him to follow my agenda unless there was specific reasons not to. Needless to say I dont get this Captains Xmas cards...

More recently this same group went down in December without me and since the captain didn't look at the weather (or did and ignored as he didnt want to make the effort) were boxed out from going to Anegada when had they adjusted the schedule a couple of days it would have worked