Our friend owns his own 38 foot boat but he’s a new owner!
I would change the comment above to this... Sedona I think you should not cancel your trip, the BVI is relatively easy sailing area.
What size boat are you chartering? Your capt should be able to handle a 40+ maybe 50 if he knows his way around a 38.
First time on a cat might be a bit of a challenge.
I would also ask how much help will he get from the crew? ...that's you. Might make a difference.
Some of the charter companies will give you a captain for the first day to get your bearings on the boat.
Leaves the dock with you, gets you to and secured at the first anchorage/mooring and gets off the boat.
I am sure the Mooring can take care of you but I would be having this conversation with your captain.
BTW lots of good videos you can watch on getting off the dock, mooring etc
Sailing VirginsGood Luck
quote= We decided to hire a skipper— <<< This will work as well. ( now to can concentrate on reviewing all the great post on the site on planning you trip.