That's a lot of worrying about an itinerary for something pretty far off. I'm going in a couple weeks but don't have a single stop planned yet, but TETO. If you're worried about food and service at a place, I'd try to get feed back closer to when you're actually going to be there as things may change. I like Diamond Cay for the relative quietness of the place; and for swimming/snorkeling. Whenever I've been there it's turtle city! Last time I was there was before the storms, but the food was good at Taboo, but super slow service-but I wasn't there for the meals to be honest. Location location location.

Just my 2 cents...and you know what they say about opinions....