You seem to be able to put it into perspective with good coping skills. Accepting reality when Plan A doesn't work out and you are able to switch to Plan B. Being flexible is not one of my strong points. Experiences like this teach people how to be flexible and make the best of a bad situation. People can spend this time being angry or searching for inner strength and knowing that it is only temporary and will soon pass. Wishing you all peace and strength in these trying times.