I agree....I mean....if this is true? We will move our dates to May/June....but what guarantee do we have that it won’t still be this knee-jerk reacting at that time?

The last-minute thing is a huge factor — I would very much like more than two weeks notice that my charter isn’t happening! I have all kinds of things arranged around the dates - flights, hotel rooms, pet sitters....first world problems, I know - but certainly relevant to this discussion.