I think we've at least decided on the Cruz Bay end of St. John. There are plenty of spectacular villas to choose from! Blue Agave isn't available for our time frame, Villa Carolina has only queen beds, and Villa Maria looks like too many stairs and different levels. Having stayed in other villas, we've gotten spoiled! One thing we like is proximity of the pool to the great room/living area. We do plan to do some dining out, and time at beaches, but will hang out at the villa and do our own meals more than most travelers.

I wish the websites would always specify pool depths and sizes, and floor plans would be helpful too! So our hunt goes on! Thank you all for your suggestions!!