We stay at Belair which is right next to Divi on Little Bay. As others have stated, your age, interests and palate will dictate where you go to eat and enjoy entertainment. Since you have a car I would recommend Chesterfields for lunch or dinner. It's close and food and service is very good. If you want a bit more upscale, Antoine's right in Philipsburg could be a good choice (valet parking). First timers are usually surprised that almost all restaurants are casual. You will know how many cruise ships are in since they will enter Sint Maarten right in front of you at Divi.