I guess my feelings are the same as Astropilot's. It's nothing we try to hide, but we have relatives who we know wouldn't understand, and we just don't want to try to explain. I'm still waiting for one of them to come walking past, off of a cruise ship, then we'll be in for some fun! <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/Yikes.gif" alt="" /> However, if one of them asks outright, we'd be honest. Try it - you'll like it! <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/Wink.gif" alt="" />