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Candace.. #254578
05/01/2021 05:42 PM
05/01/2021 05:42 PM
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Tortola/ Sonoma, California
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For those of you who knew my wife Candace I wnated pass along the sad news that she passed at 1.30 Pacific time today in Sonoma.Some of you already knew she was fading but wnated the TTOLers who knew her to also get the news. She was greatly loved and will be hugely missed. We will be toasting her in gthe BVI's in June .One love..

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254579
05/01/2021 05:43 PM
05/01/2021 05:43 PM
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Very sorry to hear that Malcom, I hope I bump into you in June!
George

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254580
05/01/2021 05:46 PM
05/01/2021 05:46 PM
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Panama City Beach, Florida
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Very sorry for your loss...

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254581
05/01/2021 05:48 PM
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Very sorry to hear this sad news, Malcom. We are thinking about you and Candace and all the fun and happy times! Rusty and Sharon

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254582
05/01/2021 05:49 PM
05/01/2021 05:49 PM
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I did not know her but have always appreciated your help, kindness, and guidance on this board, Malcolm

Very sorry to hear my friend, I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through, and if we cross paths in June in BVI would certainly be honored to toast her...

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254583
05/01/2021 05:53 PM
05/01/2021 05:53 PM
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Memphis, BVI, CT
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So very sorry to hear this. Know how much you two shared. Hope we see you in June.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254585
05/01/2021 06:08 PM
05/01/2021 06:08 PM
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Redmond, WA
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Very sorry to hear that. My heartfelt condolences.


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254586
05/01/2021 06:14 PM
05/01/2021 06:14 PM
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Thanks for letting us know Mal.

I did not know Candace, but I feel like she was a member of our TTOL family, and I am shocked and saddened.

Dan

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254588
05/01/2021 06:29 PM
05/01/2021 06:29 PM
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Knoxville, Tennessee
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Malcolm, my condolences for your loss and Candace was truly a lovely person.

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254590
05/01/2021 07:36 PM
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met and spoke with you both years ago in san Juan -- cannot imagine your loss -- know you are loved and she will be missed

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254595
05/01/2021 07:58 PM
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Malcolm, I'm so sorry for your loss. Candace was a lovely lady who will be missed by the many friends she made.

Norma


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254596
05/01/2021 08:07 PM
05/01/2021 08:07 PM
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Va Beach
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So sorry to hear this. We have enjoyed reading many posts you have made here. We all share a common love of the BVI!

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254598
05/01/2021 08:19 PM
05/01/2021 08:19 PM
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Central Florida!
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Wow, Mal.. Hard to put it into words.. Our condolences...


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254600
05/01/2021 08:25 PM
05/01/2021 08:25 PM
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9 months of the year in Michig...
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9 months of the year in Michig...
So sorry for your loss Mal.


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254601
05/01/2021 08:38 PM
05/01/2021 08:38 PM
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I am so very sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254602
05/01/2021 08:53 PM
05/01/2021 08:53 PM
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Oh Mal....My heart is with you.

Nick was there to meet her in the mule.

We will raise a glass when I see you in June......much love.....


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254605
05/01/2021 09:01 PM
05/01/2021 09:01 PM
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Cow Wreck Beach
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Very sad news, Mal. Nancy and I were at the Elm a couple of nights ago and of course thinking of the two of you. We have lots of great memories with you and "Candaysay". Wishing the best for you, and hope you get back down here soon.


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254606
05/01/2021 09:08 PM
05/01/2021 09:08 PM
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Ill, USA
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Wow. You just don’t ever know what others are going through. We are very sorry for your loss.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254609
05/01/2021 09:48 PM
05/01/2021 09:48 PM
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Mal, I am so sorry. I have no words. She was a very special lady.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254615
05/01/2021 11:06 PM
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NLR AR, USA
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Mal, Doug and I are so, so sorry. Our thoughts are with you friend.


Melissa & Doug

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254617
05/01/2021 11:45 PM
05/01/2021 11:45 PM
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Mal, Condolences from Julie me and the boys. Lovely gal that will be greatly missed.



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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254618
05/02/2021 01:13 AM
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My condolences - Candace was wonderful person and the world is a poorer place with her passing. Here's a picture of her from happier times at the Elm

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254620
05/02/2021 03:12 AM
05/02/2021 03:12 AM
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I know my missus has already passed on our condolences but just wanted to add my own. We had so many happy times together at CRC and The Elm but, sadly, could never get Candace aboard Jeannius (even just tied at the dock!!!). Can't believe we will never see her again. Here's a photo of happy times together along with a few other TTOLers, at The Elm, on the night the great Steve Cropper joined the band...

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254622
05/02/2021 03:48 AM
05/02/2021 03:48 AM
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California
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Malcom I am so sorry for your loss...the memories of your love and life together I hope will soften the sorrow. Hope you are able to travel to your beloved CRC and remember the good and wonderful times together.

sunny

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254625
05/02/2021 06:59 AM
05/02/2021 06:59 AM
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So, so sorry to hear this new Mal. It's been quite a while since we've seen you down there but love the memories. My next Red Stripe will be for her .


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254638
05/02/2021 08:38 AM
05/02/2021 08:38 AM
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Tommy and I send our condolences! Please take care.

A lovely toast indeed come June to honor!

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254639
05/02/2021 08:41 AM
05/02/2021 08:41 AM
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Toronto, Ontario
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Mal - that is heartbreaking news - my sincere condolences - stay strong - Brian


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254640
05/02/2021 08:58 AM
05/02/2021 08:58 AM
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So very sorry for your loss. Life is just not easy when you get older


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254646
05/02/2021 09:58 AM
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I feel so badly for you Malcolm. I hadn't expected to hear this as I thought you might be comimg down soon. I enjoyed our many chance meetups and the talks with yourself and Candace at the restaurants and bars on the North shore. Please look after yourself well and I hope to see you perhaps later in the year.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254659
05/02/2021 12:36 PM
05/02/2021 12:36 PM
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Maine
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A hard reminder that none of us know how long we'll be enjoying this trip. Condolences, Mal, for you as well as close friends and family.

Breeze

Re: Candace.. [Re: GaryC] #254660
05/02/2021 12:36 PM
05/02/2021 12:36 PM
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Woodstock, GA
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Malcolm, VERY sorry to hear of your loss! She was a very classy lady. Prayers for you.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254667
05/02/2021 03:53 PM
05/02/2021 03:53 PM
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Vail, CO
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So incredibly sorry for your loss. Can't think of a better way honor her memory than with a visit to the BVI in June. After losing 2 dogs and my mom and dad in the past 2 years and hearing about way too many people gone too soon, I encourage everyone to LIVE life to the fullest. You never know what day will be your last.


Sue
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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254690
05/02/2021 07:56 PM
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Mal,
I know you were so very much looking forward to returning to your BVI home. So sorry your partner can’t make it.
Fondly remember meeting you at the Elm years ago. We walked in and saw you, and I said to my friends “I know that guy!” Even though I didn’t.

QTR my friends...Quality Time Remaining. Make the most of it!


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254694
05/02/2021 09:25 PM
05/02/2021 09:25 PM
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The Villages, Florida
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Malcolm,

Roy and I always looked forward to seeing you and Candace. Some of our happiest memories of the BVI were when we stayed
at the Chateau. Candace made a lovely Italian dinner. I could smell the sauce cooking for hours.

I'm certain that Roy welcomed her into Heaven today and made her a painkiller.

May all of your good memories bring smiles to you.

Karen

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254699
05/02/2021 11:22 PM
05/02/2021 11:22 PM
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Franklin, TN
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Oh, Mal, I am so sorry to read this news. What a great life y'all had together!

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254702
05/03/2021 04:31 AM
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Here is another image in memoriam - I had to listen to the song "Diamonds on the Soles of her Shoes" with tears in my eyes yesterday

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254717
05/03/2021 09:06 AM
05/03/2021 09:06 AM
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Kannapolis, NC
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Malcomb, Melissa and I send our sincere condolences to you. We've never met, but hope to soon. So very sorry for your loss.

Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254724
05/03/2021 10:10 AM
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Mal,

Leo and I are so deeply saddened to hear that Candace has passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are truly blessed to have shared many wonderful times together especially sharing in our wedding on Apple Bay.
Sending our love and hugs and wishing we could be there in June.....we will be there in spirit.

Much love to you Mal,

Mappy & Leo


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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254739
05/03/2021 12:00 PM
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So sorry to hear of your loss Mal. Pam and I will always remember the times spent with you and Candice. She was a very special lady. Les and Pam

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Re: Candace.. [Re: Manpot] #254743
05/03/2021 12:23 PM
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We never met, but we're so sorry to hear of her passing. Hope you and your family find peace in the wonderful memories that you share.

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