Originally Posted by Ontheboat
First, an introduction:

As I'm sure Carol can attest, I'm one of those many people that "lurk a lot, post little". Over the many years on TTOL I've gleaned a significant amount of information from this forum. I post little, but because I have little to add.

My wife and I have owned sailboats for 25+ years. Sailed the Caribbean since the late '90's. Know our way around the back roads and some of the old names and faces: some still here, some not.

Because of a mother nature (lightning strike on our boat) issue, we've been away from the BVI's for a couple of years and are looking to return. We've kept track of the recovery from Hurricane Irma and even donated to the recovery. But, we are ready to visit again.

Yes, we were around when Billy Bones went away (still have the T Shirts, kids remember the crab races out back) and were not a fan of the high-end Pirate's Bight. Stayed at Tamarind Club several times and remember the kids helped shoo away the cows in the evening (and the resident cat that did not like me). Those days ended and it was sad. However, reading through so many posts and current trip reports, our concern about returning is increased with every comment.

This Boaty Ball situation sounds absolutely insane - yet not unexpected for the way the few control the many in the islands.

Arriving. Provisioning. Heading out the first day. All are full of tips/tricks/preferences that can be interesting and fun. But, from then on out having to "adjust to the new way" with BB seems to both bring the stress many of us are trying to leave behind and completely defeat the purpose of the visiting adventure.

The mid-afternoon battle for the last mooring ball is a right of passage and an adventure. People sit on their boats solely for the entertainment. Being able to pick up a ball mid-day to eat lunch or fill tanks and head to the next stop is important. Watching the boat boy come around to grab your soggy dollars (sorry had to do that) and then keeping the receipts, of which we have many, is a joy.

Now? Download an app. Get Wifi. Peck around on your phone and plan. Fight over who gets the ball. And, as the BB people say "accommodate", is insane.

We come to the islands to get away from apps, internet, scheduling, coordinating, fighting....and BB has introduced it to paradise.

Someone convince me that progress like this is good.

-Carib Guy


No one enjoys the late day theater of "mooring ball hussle" more than me and I'm pretty BB won't eliminate that. Pour a Painkiller and enjoy. Sometimes different isn't better or worse, it's just different. (I thought the guy doing figure 8's in front of me at Taboo trying to get a ball last year was hysterical until he came within 4 ft of my bow!)

As for the difference now vs "then" I have a short story. So we caught the bug on a trip in BVI in 2010 and LOVED it so much we took lessons.Now 6 charters in we feel more experienced but still learning. Kind of "been there" but still very much our "Happy Place". But ... on our last trip I got to see it through the eyes of new crew, waking up to the beautiful water every day. Eager to take sunset pics every night. Wide eyed at the beauty of Cow Wreck, appreciative of the life style and feeling every day like it's the best vacation EVER!

So I hear ya, (and everyone really) that sure, things change but from coffee on the stern every morning to rum drinks every night in a new beach shack, the sun in my face and the calm of the sail .... I love St Martin and I love Spanish Virgins but I LIVE for our sailing trips to BVI and I can't imagine a few changes convincing me otherwise.


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