We don’t own at RI but we have stayed there and thoroughly enjoyed our stay. The airplane noise was not a problem and we thoroughly enjoyed seeing the big ones come and go. Rooms were nice, views were great and the staff couldn’t have been anymore accommodating.
Haven’t stayed at Divi but the beach is nice and it’s a pleasant place to avoid the hubbub the island can offer. Only disadvantage to me would be the driving time to so many of our favorite eateries, many of which are at Maho and Cupecoy.