I also agree with slowing it down.

Leverick Bay on a Friday night for the Jumbies and BBQ is great and can handle a large group. You can also reserve slips on the dock and allow the crew time to enjoy Leverick without having to dinghy from the boat.

They have a spa and the massages are wonderful. Personally I don’t think there’s enough space on the boats to have a massage there.

We also have had intentions of fishing and a friend brought all their gear down and it never got used. We’d just skipped it and enjoyed the beauty of the islands.

Keep a watch on weather, wind and swells and know what areas to avoid for a north swell. Wind guru is one app we like.
https://www.windguru.cz/58

Our main agenda items: sailing, floating on noodles, snorkeling, enjoying the beaches, enjoying chatting with the locals and dinner ashore every evening. It’s all part of the wonderful BVI experience.

You will have a blast! Plan less and enjoy more.

Oh, and speaking of less. Pack in soft sided bags and whatever you lay out to bring, put at least half back.