Actually what we all want is for this horrible thing to not have happened at all. But sometimes we don't get what we want. Everyone deals with tragedy and loss differently. The only thing that we can do at this time is to treat each other with respect.

For those not familiar with the song, I commend to you Jimmy Buffet's, "Breathe In, Breathe Out", which was written about Katrina.

"According to my watch the time is now
Past is dead and gone
Don't try to shake it just nod your head
Breathe In, Breathe Out, Move On..."