I am sorry StormJib would not waste his/her time on Anegada. Last summer we took our children and grandchildren to Anegada in two shifts. For the first week it was a really rough ride, but once we arrived they loved the process of dinghying to the dock, renting a car, getting lost on the island, finding beaches and beach bars. We ate at Anegada Reef Hotel so were not surrounded by hordes, but instead were served by wonderful staff who cared that the children were indeed having a good trip. In addition, the dietary needs of a 4 year old who was not too sure of this whole boating thing were more than adequately met.
The best thing about the BVI is that there is something for everyone. Our grandchildren were aged 4 - 15 and Anegada was one of their favorite spots.