I figured before people get mad at me, I better give my own story.  My first year in SXM, I was walking down the hill from Flamingo and headed for Peg Leg.  A local stopped and asked us if we needed a ride. Being overly cautious, we at first said no, but decided we'd accept aferall.  We ended up going w/this local to get his oil changed first, and then with him to his friends birthday party.  We were welcomed w/open arms.  We were offered beer, cake and a stake in a dominoes game.  Despite all my good experiences, I still remember being at a local birthday party over all else.  I love the people and corresponde with many from the birthday party to this day.