Hey Sean, some good comments and thoughts posted. We own a Mahe 36 and have her in charter at HYC. The Mahe is a perfect example of solo, couple or 2 couple sailing vessel. We spend time with friends and also the two of us. The fist mate did a basic crew sailing course and gave her all the confidence required and terminology to feel comfortable with the two of us. I have instructed in multiple different sports and know it is a BAD idea to try and teach a partner or spouse! Don't try and teach her and you'll be all good. ( take a carabiner or snap shackle, you can do it all your self with a ball) K.I.S.S keep it simple stupid. Aloha.